how we be friends are how we control and how we feel ...

if you wanna be with some one ...
if you feel happy with that guy ...
then ask him/her if they wanna be yours ...

but if you wanna hate some one ...
if you feel that guy is some how not welcum be you ...
then you just dun care him/her ...

and if you wanna be friends with some one ...
if you feel he/she is kind , caring , friendly ...
then you intro yourself to him , and see how he/she respond ...
if he/she talks to you ... it mean he/she wants you to be his/her friend ...

only three way in your hand ... but the rest it is not your control ...
god or who ever you blieve in will arange you with some one ...
unless you are arange to some one already ...

are you aranged ??
or fated ???